Just when you think you know your family, along comes something that shocks, sickens, and makes you wish you were never connected with certain people. How does one manage to get over such things? How do you reach that point of no return with some troublesome relatives?
Well after many years observing people go through much with difficult relatives, including myself, I can say that there are several things that I have noticed when it comes to dealing with challenging family members and their disturbing news.
1. Those in shock often talk to the relative who is the main character in said events or others involved. They allow the person or kinfolk to share their side of the story no matter how bad.
2. The hurting family members don't always offer assistance or want to hear details especially when they know full well they aren't the least bit interested in coming to any one's aid.
3. Shocked and angry relatives will advise close family members and friends to stop enabling the problem relative which also might include shunning the person and others.
4. They avoid re-connecting with both the difficult person and those affiliated to him or her until issues die down or they simply disconnect for good.
Sometimes the best way to handle any shocking information is to not react publicly. The more attention you draw to the mayhem, the more likely you will be sucked in by it. Consider your relationship with the person, who brought the information to you and whether it is really necessary to discuss anything with other loved ones. If the news is very shameful, it is always best to keep a lid on it and distance yourself from the person and the problem if you know you can't handle him or her and all that comes with the drama unfolding. Think ahead.
Nicholl McGuire
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