Welcome to a family friendly blog that presents popular family issues and provides advice on family conflict. From dramas left behind by ancestors to generational curses, this family blog covers challenging issues. The more you know, the more empowered you will be when it comes to dealing with family problems, relationship challenges, and more! Solve family struggles and gain respect! Welcome to a site that puts family secrets on blast, so one can find spiritual healing!
Wednesday, September 30, 2015
Monday, September 28, 2015
Selfish People: Self-Absorbed, Uncaring and Controlling
Author, speaker and blogger Nicholl McGuire shares a spiritual perspective about selfish people in your inner circle. http://share.myflare.com/jmmBjv
A Family of False Fronts - Liars, Exaggerators and Manipulators
Do you ever get tired of hearing the exaggerated story-telling, lies, manipulations, and more that a relative (or more than a few) put out about certain family members? So why co-sign on the foolishness?
Some relatives are either too scared, nervous, or just don't want to get into any dispute about the wrongs coming out of the family gossips' mouths. By doing this, they are nothing more than enablers and flying monkeys. Gathering in a room with a bunch of people around the holidays, telling stories with false fronts and pretending to be enjoying the festivities, you most likely can see through their acts. Some do this because they are bought by toxic family members. They feel obligated because they made requests and so they feel forever indebted to them.
You may not particularly like some relatives; therefore when you around them, they will make you more sensitive to criticism and quick to defend one's self and others. If the family mess is stinking to high heaven, it might be best for you to stay home around those major holidays and visit favorite loved ones afterward.
False fronts are presented everywhere from the celebrity who sits on a talk show host's couch talking about how much he or she is in love with a partner, gets along well with a producer, etc. to the mother who claims that all is right with her family. Most of us don't inquire any further simply because we don't care or have enough issues of our own. Yet, when false fronts affect our well-being, cause emotional upset, or set us back physically, we will speak up. We will not go along just to get along.
It can be a challenge dealing with someone who has a long list of emotional issues and more. Sometimes you are unable to get pass the false fronts to get to the truth. Don't lose your cool! I have seen firsthand people like this who know full well they are lying about someone or something be exposed. At times, you might find you are in the position to shine a bright light on their dark ways. But don't fear, back down, or create a few false fronts of your own, stand strong!
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Tell Me Mother You're Sorry, Say Goodbye to Dad and other books.
Some relatives are either too scared, nervous, or just don't want to get into any dispute about the wrongs coming out of the family gossips' mouths. By doing this, they are nothing more than enablers and flying monkeys. Gathering in a room with a bunch of people around the holidays, telling stories with false fronts and pretending to be enjoying the festivities, you most likely can see through their acts. Some do this because they are bought by toxic family members. They feel obligated because they made requests and so they feel forever indebted to them.
You may not particularly like some relatives; therefore when you around them, they will make you more sensitive to criticism and quick to defend one's self and others. If the family mess is stinking to high heaven, it might be best for you to stay home around those major holidays and visit favorite loved ones afterward.
False fronts are presented everywhere from the celebrity who sits on a talk show host's couch talking about how much he or she is in love with a partner, gets along well with a producer, etc. to the mother who claims that all is right with her family. Most of us don't inquire any further simply because we don't care or have enough issues of our own. Yet, when false fronts affect our well-being, cause emotional upset, or set us back physically, we will speak up. We will not go along just to get along.
It can be a challenge dealing with someone who has a long list of emotional issues and more. Sometimes you are unable to get pass the false fronts to get to the truth. Don't lose your cool! I have seen firsthand people like this who know full well they are lying about someone or something be exposed. At times, you might find you are in the position to shine a bright light on their dark ways. But don't fear, back down, or create a few false fronts of your own, stand strong!
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Tell Me Mother You're Sorry, Say Goodbye to Dad and other books.
Sunday, September 27, 2015
Saturday, September 26, 2015
Friday, September 25, 2015
Thursday, September 24, 2015
Wednesday, September 23, 2015
Monday, September 21, 2015
Saturday, September 19, 2015
Tips Dating Older Men, Dating Younger Women: Crazy, Weird, Silly - Don't Settle for Someone You...
Tips Dating Older Men, Dating Younger Women: Crazy, Weird, Silly - Don't Settle for Someone You...: When I was younger if a man had a funny looking face, an annoying flaw like a bizarre laugh, or something else I didn't like, I simply ...
Thursday, September 17, 2015
Need Assistance with Family Issues?
Around the web there are sites that can help with family issues from substance abuse to unemployment. Here are some places to help you begin your journey toward some peace.
Online Counseling
Online counseling for couples, relationships, marriage and ...
MyTherapynet.com
Career Issues
Career Counseling, Testing & Professional Level Assessments
Career Counseling Services - Careers.org
Housing Needs
Rental Assistance/U.S. Department of Housing and Urban ...
Low income assistance programs - Need Help Paying Bills
Money Problems
Supplemental Security Income (SSI)
Supplemental Income - FlexJobs
Work From Home Jobs on CareerBuilder.com
WAHM - Official Site
Work From Home Jobs - 10 Best (and Real) Work-At-Home Jobs ...
Personality Disorders
Personality disorders - Mayo Clinic
The 10 Personality Disorders | Psychology Today
Spiritual Motivation (by Family Articles blogger Nicholl McGuire)
NM Enterprise 7 - YouTube
Online Counseling
Online counseling for couples, relationships, marriage and ...
MyTherapynet.com
Career Issues
Career Counseling, Testing & Professional Level Assessments
Career Counseling Services - Careers.org
Housing Needs
Rental Assistance/U.S. Department of Housing and Urban ...
Low income assistance programs - Need Help Paying Bills
Money Problems
Supplemental Security Income (SSI)
Supplemental Income - FlexJobs
Work From Home Jobs on CareerBuilder.com
WAHM - Official Site
Work From Home Jobs - 10 Best (and Real) Work-At-Home Jobs ...
Personality Disorders
Personality disorders - Mayo Clinic
The 10 Personality Disorders | Psychology Today
Spiritual Motivation (by Family Articles blogger Nicholl McGuire)
NM Enterprise 7 - YouTube
Elder Issues
List supplied by Nicholl McGuire author of When Mothers Cry, Socially Sweet Privately Cruel Abusive Men and other books.